stress

I must say it has been a stressfull holiday.  Jimmy and I have been on the "outs".  After we arrived back from canada he mentioned that the house was messy.  He also mentioned that I would have given him the riot act.  He wasn't giving me the riot act--- he was just saying.  Oh, did I mention that he was saying this at like 12:30 at night after he had just got through playing on his computer for about 2 hours.  So I ended up not going up to Bonner's for the 4th and I ended up cleaning the kitchen, and living room.  Ya know we have so much to be thankful for, too much.  I have been getting rid of oh so many things.  It feels great.  We are still not organized yet.  my goal is to have a place for everything and every thing in its place.  It will be a long time coming i'm sure.  But it does feel good to have at least 2 rooms clean, (except the fruit).  Jimmy and the kids got home today while I was at work.  I guess they ended up cleaning their rooms and the tv room.  Yay 5 rooms cleaned, make that 6 I cleaned the downstairs bathroom too.  The computer room was cleaned at one point so it should be fairly easy to clean up. Exept I have kids who go play on my computer and scatter all my papers all over the place.  But I have succeeded in compiling a chore chart for the kids.  I am in the process of compiling one for Jimmy and I.  I can't wait to see what the results will be for progress on that.    

Today I was..... Let's start with last night. Last night I had... no lets start with Tuesday. Tuesday Jimmy is suppose to have Scouts. I say suppose to" because he hasn't been going. Well needless to say I gave him the eye and ..... He still didn't go. So I rustled everyone up and we read scriptures. side note- we are on Alma 59 ish. That is way good for us because we are on again, off again. } back to the story. So no scouts, no help with dishes, no help with cleaning or laundry or anything. So Wednesday, I have Activity Days, so I am gone, with the girls, from 6:45- 8:30 ish. Come home. Again, nothing done. I told the girls to get read for bed. they do what they do every night, and took their own sweet time. by this time, I am laying down on the couch in the LR. Sophia laid down with dad and started watching Robocop with dad. Then @ 9:45 he Finally tells her it is time for bed. then she starts freeking out because her concert is Thursday and she needs something to wear. I told her to go to bed and then went shopping. Home at 11, up at 7. Drove Hunter & Jayden out to freeman, came home woke up Sophia, she was so happy with the clothes. I grabbed a couple extra for girls that might have forgotten. I went into the school when I dropped off Sophia and talked to one of the receptionists. It is Thursday, it is late start, I have always dropped her off early so I could get to work on time. But today, the secretary told me that there wasn't going to be anyone to watch Sophia until 9:30, she would have to sit and wait. She was being shy and started walking toward the door with me and was asking me what was going on. Then the main secretary told her that there was someone in the lunch room to watch the kids already, she was there @ 8:30. You know, I know we don't know Everything, but sometimes, people are really hard to take. On the way to work I kept thinking about that situation and how I thought of that not-so-smart-lady, is probably how my boss thinks about me. Ha!. Then I started going through my mom's mail and noticed the bill for Macy's $2.00 that I said I would pay for her, yeah. It was due yesterday.. I swear whatever comes out of my mouth goes into a black hole and I remember no more. AHHHHHH. So now the late fee.

Agent

Hunter is going into AAU Summer League. Well, he has 3 coaches that want him to play for them. One of the coaches is very persistent and his assistant is also persistent. While I was talking to him @ 10pm last night. I just kept thinking I don't know enough about this stuff to know what he is talking about. Hunter needs an Agent. The Coach has a good track record and most of his players go on to play college ball. I'm all for that. The players are a year younger and he doesn't feel like they challenge him. I haven't seen the other teams yet. Something to look forward to.