Venting

Ok, so I am frustrated, to say the least. I have so much to keep myself busy and now I get to keep someone else busy. I don't know if all men are like that but nothing gets done by my hubby unless I ask him to do it. I don't feel that is fair. I think husbands and wifes should take turns telling each other what to do. It drains me. Keeping 3 kids busy is no easy chore but then to add a husband to that, it just doesn't seem right. And of course I have to keep positive and encourage him, so he doesn't get too depressed. I went to a class once and the instructor talked about EGBOK. That stands for everything is going to be ok. That just keeps going through my mind over and over. I think, It has to be ok. This morning the little voice inside my head keeps telling me the "This too shall pass." I of course question it as to, When? I know everything will be ok. I am sorry this is so personal but sometimes I need to vent and I do it best in writing.